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Waiting for the one.

Waiting for the one. By Ollie. So, I’m talking to a new guy at the minute. And I hate to admit it, but I feel more excited about life by having someone to talk to romantically. It’s very early stages, and I feel a bit like a dog sniffing another dog at the park as I try to figure him out. But I can’t say that it has been the easiest journey. As an overthinker, I must routinely talk myself off the ledge when it comes to new relationships and processing my often-intense emotions. In a world governed by non-committal labels, dating apps and socially inept people. It can be difficult to be a romantic who’s after the real deal. Dating feels like this board game that I never bothered to learn the rules for and am pretending to know which piece goes where and how many paces to take forward. I’m not suave, not cool and can’t flirt to save my life. But what I am is an honest and caring person deserving of love. As a gay man, I think that this idea of non-monogamy is only exacerbated. As...